Month old ventings

I found this in my journal last night:

“I miss you, I miss how happy I was with you. I’m trying to be happy-but it’s so damn hard here, without you.

I feel like I can’t be myself here-and this is supposed to be “home” but it really doesn’t feel like it anymore…

I want to come back home.”

So this may have been suring my dark and depressed stage of being back in the country, and things have definately picked up-to the point where reading throught this entry and others which are slightly too miserable and depressing to post kind of scre me. I do miss you, I do want to come back home-but in almost no time at all things will be better than ever, and we’ll be making a new home :D

nye :)

nye :)

soppy thoughts of distance in relationships

when you think you love someone, try going a substantial period of time without them. Value this time as your own space for houghts and reflection. You will learn more about your relationship, and each other; or at least what you mean to each other, when you’re without one another.

Don’t be put off by your ability to continue your everyday life, which may surprise you. Love doesn’t mean not being able to live without one another. I think, if you really love each other-you’ll find distance is irrelevant and without the physical aspects of your relationship you tend to focus on the other things. Write letters to one another, spend whatever time you can talk to each other talking not just about one another but about life and events and thoughts you may have about anything and everything.

No matter how long, or how far, knowledge, faith and trust in each other should be enough to pull you throguh, and you will be better for it.

More sure, more dedicated, more appreciative of one another and you’ll realise just how meaningful that person and their love for you is. Absense makes the heart grow fonder, and makes you view one another’s companyas being so much more valuable.

When saying goodbye think of the words of Jonathon Livingston Seagull:

“If all we have is right here, right now; don’t you think we’ll see each other once or twice”

:)

too cute

too cute

(via conflictingheart)

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When I say “I love you,” its not because I want you or because I can’t have you. It has nothing to do with me. I love what you are, what you do, and how you try. I’ve seen your kindness and your strength. I’ve seen the best and the worst of you. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what and who you are.

Joss Whedon (via quote-book)

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one week

I’ve reached the one week mark…

I’m scared, I don’t want to go home.

There’s nothing telling me to go back, and everything telling me to stay-so why am I going?

this is totally how we’re going to roll down under

this is totally how we’re going to roll down under

ridgeway black and white

ridgeway black and white

the ridgeway…
my favourite place in oxfrordshire… camping there tonight :)

the ridgeway…

my favourite place in oxfrordshire… camping there tonight :)

That’s right. black cat (being attacked by dog) eye ball monster and a pirate being eaten by a shark :P we’re awesome

That’s right. black cat (being attacked by dog) eye ball monster and a pirate being eaten by a shark :P we’re awesome

Bonfire Night, Guy Fawkes :)

Bonfire Night, Guy Fawkes :)

“GET NOTICED” Book Review

With almost 7 billion people currently occupying Earth (And that’s only the people who are accounted for), it is now more important than it has ever been to stand out from the crowd in order to further your career, or reach any goals you may have.

“Get Noticed”, a book by Marcus Taylor and Rob Lawrence presents not only methods of increasing your zone of awareness, increasing your likeability and improving what are assumed to be already apt communication skills but also implies a philosophy and way of life where if you put into place the many practical tips and exercises in the book, you are almost ensured to see an improvement in the amount of people you meet, and the quality of these people which can further both professional and personal relationships and help you succeed in what the title of the book implies; Getting Noticed.

With so many people in the pool it also means that there are going to be a lot of obstacles between you and that person you may or may not be looking for who can improve or change your life for the better. I personally value trying to be the best I can be at anything I give a go, and am constantly looking at ways of improving my game, meeting more people and as a result, making myself more prone to receiving new opportunities. The content of Get Noticed is both practical and universal and has provided me with a heightened awareness of just how intentional being “in the right place at the right time” can be, and how it truly is possible to be “in the right place, at the right time, all the time.”

From reading “Get Noticed” I believe that the book is targeted especially to the entrepreneurial types, or anyone in the creative and Performing Arts industry, such as musicians or aspiring actors, as these are the careers in which Getting Noticed by the right people is essential to your success.

In saying this, the concepts within the book, and the practical activities suggested, are universal and can be used, I believe, by anyone interested in investing the time to improve their “Personal Brand”. The chapter layout is easy to navigate, and each chapter stands alone just as well as it ties in with the chapters before and after. This makes the book an easy reference book, along with being a good and useful read cover to cover.

The writing style is very simplistic and conversational, jargon is kept to a minimum, and a lot of the examples of conversation starters are quite basic and interchangable. Initially I saw all of these factors as detracting from the quality of the information encased within “Get Noticed” but in fact, it is these qualities which make the book so practical and accessible, as the basic language and writing structure leave no-one unable to understand the content, or take something valuable from it.

The content of the book is not new, nor do the authors claim it to be. Marcus and Rob have simply put a lot of theories to the test and found those which are the most beneficial. They haven’t just written a book, it is obvious they have lived the book and present readers with a practical guide of the best ways in which to Get Noticed. Reading the book I found that I knew or had been told majority of the information it held, but what “Get Noticed” does is increase your awareness of the information. It increases your awareness of the importance of presentation, body language, preparation for situations and events etc. “Get Noticed” actually demonstrates the practical and even measurable benefits of investing in the development of your person and communication skills in specific areas in chapters such as “Putting Get Noticed into action in your social life” and Putting Get Noticed into action in your career.”

I would highly recommend “Get Noticed” to anyone wanting to improve their personal brand and either kick start or further their career, but I honestly believe there is not one person who could walk away after reading it unaffected or uninspired by its content. 

“Get Noticed” truly opens your eyes to just how much control we have over who we meet and how far we go in life; it shows us how our future, our fate is in our hands and that we have all the means necessary to meet who we need to meet to do whatever it is we have dreamed of.

To learn more or to purchase the book visit www.wegetnoticed.com

gah

sometimes you can be so god damn frustrating! I dont like to nag, I know I’m OCD but could you please just focus for 5 minutes on helping me tidy up after ourselves without being distracted! That’s all I ask, I promise… (for now)